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I told him to get out of the bathroom and just melted down. I told him he was making me uncomfortable. That broke his heart.. Instead of thinking of people in terms of "gay" and "straight," open yourself to all the possibilities of life in between. Bisexuality is an orientation in its own right. There is even a bisexual movement, with songs and organizations (and really, really fun parties). But if you're with a partner who is getting off, they've let themselves be vulnerable to you in that way: you can likely trust they are safe for you to do the same with. And even if you look like a dope doing it, partners will tend not to have that impression, because a partner reaching orgasm with us is just usually pretty darn cool and exciting.In terms of your partner, if you haven't yet had some discussion about what's going on with you with this, it's time to do that. See if the two of you can't work on better communicating when you're having a...